This is something that we unfortunately do not order. Love is one of the most random and irrational things there is.
For me, the first thing to do is to show yourself to the other in your most natural appearance, without trying to bait, fool, or get stuck in a mold that is not yours.
Once you are natural, the trick is far from over. It is also necessary that your natural expression is one that catches the attention of the person who interests you. And that is the crux of the matter.
You can be beautiful, playful, and knowledgeable of many qualities but not arouse any particular interest in the person you love. In fact, I believe there is a necessary click for someone to take an interest in you and take the step.
There are, of course, people who apply the saying "the best is often the enemy of the good " well and will not be asked to come to you. These people will focus on your qualities without necessarily waiting for any sign of nature to decide. But things don't always work that way.
This click, this kind of little sign that we feel and that tells us that this person is the right one (something very subjective it must be said) plays a lot in relationships. It is as important for men as it is for women. The women, almost all, know this kind man, loving and full of qualities. He is trying (or has tried) desperately to get our attention but we do not give him a favorable response. We have nothing to reproach him with, but we do not feel a click with him. It is something that we do not always explain to ourselves but which plays a big role in our choices.
In short, continue to be yourself. Don't corrupt your personality, values, and principles to please someone you love. You can try your hand at it, moreover if you are gifted you will have a good time. But the natural will quickly return to the load, and in the long run, discomfort will be felt in the relationship.
If that person is around you and doesn't feel love for you, don't blame yourself. You can only give what you have, nothing else. This man probably sees you as a woman like any other, a good friend, a confidante, etc. Nothing more. Take it as it is and don't force anything. You might later meet the person with whom there will be reciprocal love. Or maybe the man you love will change his mind later. Even if you don't and on top of that, you don't meet anyone, at least you will have the peace of mind not to be in a one-sided relationship, where you lack love.!